Nigerian rapper, Blaqbonez has shared his perspective on love and relationships, suggesting that everyday people may have an advantage over celebrities when it comes to building something real.
Speaking on a recent episode of the Ada’s Room podcast, the rapper pointed to lifestyle differences as a major factor. According to him, non-celebrities tend to have more predictable routines, making it easier to nurture stable relationships.
He contrasted this with the reality of being an artist, where schedules are constantly disrupted, making long-term commitment more difficult.
“In a relationship, I care about my partner but not in a fairytale way. I don’t think I can give anybody the fairytale. I even think that the fairytale thing is fake. Human beings are just trying to not accept reality.
“My lifestyle as an artiste is part of the reasons I can’t give anyone a fairytale love. If I was an everyday-person that didn’t have to communicate with too many people, it would be easier to dedicate myself to one woman.
“Because as an everyday-person you just go to work and come back home to your woman after closing and repeat.
“You can create a routine where just one or two people challenge the routine in a year. But being an artist, people challenge your routine every day,” he explained.
Blaqbonez also highlighted another challenge, meeting people organically.
“It is really difficult to find genuine relationship. Being an artiste, everybody you meet engineered themselves to be there to meet you. It is crazy because you supposed to just live and meet radom people,” he added.
